Girls

It is very common to see a women covering her face with her veil in any rural area . But have you ever noticed that with that VEIL , her wishes , her dreams , her happiness , her freedom are all covered with the heavy weight of her VEIL . It seems very common to us but what about her own life . Whenever I get to know about these conditions of women still prevailing in our society my heart totally sinks in grief. These women have to follow many conventions which are still in our country from a very historic time . We often see in rural areas that women covered their face with their long veil whenever their father-in-law or any male member is in front of them . What all this shows ? It shows that how down we are till today . We think that if daughter-in-laws doesn't covered themselves with their veils then they are not respectful to their in-laws . What a rubbish thing this society is following ? Why these people think that only clothes of a female shows her character and her valu...

Today , the topic of my blog would be familiar to all of you . We all knew this and are aware of this . The word "challenges" and "girls" seems very synonymous .   Every girl has to face many challenges in her life right from her childhood to her old age . What the difference between this journey of challenges is the challenge .   Does our society ever think that how challenging life a girl lives ?  Never.... If it ever think of then today all these crimes which are happening with them would be finished . Why does our society is so cruel to our girls ? Every girl either rich , poor or of  a middle class family has to face big challenges in her life . Usually we all see , right from her childhood , some parents even today difference between their daughters and sons . Their sons are given more privileges than their daughters . Sons are having more freedom than daughters . They are allowed to go anywhere anytime and in the case of girls , they are just taught by ...

We all knew this fact from the very ancient time that '' Women are the symbol of power''. But how contradictory this view is form our ancestors who on one side claimed the power of women and on the other side made the rituals like ''Sati Pratha''. Does these views favour the existence of women or made a reason for her death.  Many of us have also heard about the fact : ''Where women are worshipped , there God exists''. Then what happen to people when many complaint registers are over flowed with the complaints of women harrassment ?? Isn't this a matter of shame for all those people who have their own daughter, sister, mother and in society they treat women as if she is their slave. In earlier times girls were married in very small age and when their husbands die after sometime of marriage, people blamed her for this and she was also burnt alive with her dead husband on his pyre. How shameful acts were done by these people who c...

Who is a father..????   He is the real hero of his children...especially of his daughter...   A daughter always see a king in her father and herself as his princess... 💐 But sometimes this princess feels very bad.. As her father don't even try to understand her and her feelings... She always had a feeling of loneliness in her mind... always wants to talk with him but finds no response and intrest in her father... All this increases with time.... Then what... this distance becomes so long... While traveling this distance she was so lonely that this journey teaches her the lesson of her life.... And she has gone so far from her king.. her air castles broke and she saw this reality of world that she is a DAUGHTER.... 😢 Always listen what your daughter wants to tell you.. leave your ego behind otherwise one day will come when she will leave you.. and you will have no option left......

Dreams...          What are dreams...??? We all have one or the other dream... Then what is a difference between a day dream or a night dream. There is a lot. We all see dreams during our sleep at night..     But real dreams are those which don't allow us to sleep... It doesn't means that by having some dream one can't sleep.. It is that if one has a real dream then we always think about it whether in day or at night.. It is the real dream a person can have in his/her life...      Who says not to have dreams in your life... having a dream gives us a motive to survive.. it is the difference between a human being and an animal. They too survive and we too.. The only difference is having a dream... So have a dream have a goal... it will give you a real reason to survive...     I have a dream, do you have...?????

  Girls... seems a very common topic...    But not common in reality.. everyone says to respect girl child,give them equal rights,but do we ? I don't think that every person takes it so seriously.            Girls... who are they.. they are the foundations of our society, a beautiful gift of this nature, then why to discriminate with them, why daughters sometimes not given equal rights like their brothers , why  some parents take them as a burden.. What's the answer.. no one knows that.. but now it is the need of hour to understand the importance of girls and let them fulfill their dreams...  Let every girl be like a Kalpana Chawla who can touch the sky, let every girl be like Pratibha Patel who can make the society realise the courage of girl power, let every girl be like herself who can make her own identity......